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Welcome to The
British Second Wives Club
- Support, advice
& friendship for Second Wives & Partners, Stepmothers &
Wives of Widowers.
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Bitter Ex Wife Pattern
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Is she domineering, hard-nosed, malicious and controlling?
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The BSWC welcomes Second Wives
from around the Globe.
Click here to find out more.
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Join
the BSWC today and improve your Relationship!
Does he have a past? Has he
been married before?
 Did
you meet him when he was still married? Being with a man who has a past can
bring many different elements into your relationship - some good, some not so
good and some bad.
Join us!
You'll meet lots of like-minded women who understand what it's like being with a
man who has a past!
In The BSWC
you will find help, advice, comfort, friendship and support in a non-political &
non-judgemental environment. A club for you to share the good times and the bad
times, find new approaches to life's little hurdles, hook up with Ladies on your
wave length and enjoy 24 hours access to the best online support from women who
truly understand.
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The Guardian
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The Independent
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Sunday Express
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The Metro
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Red Magazine
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Real
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Woman
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My Weekly
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Choice
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Take a Break
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Bella
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The BSWC was
formed by Linda Mellor in response for the need for a British-based Club to assist second wives,
whether married or not, through the ups and downs of living with a man with a
history!
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Linda, who Founded The BSWC in March 2005, says:
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understand how a second wife can be driven to distraction by
his jealous ex, who is unable to get over him and to move on
with her life.
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You find yourself asking the same questions, over and over
again: she wanted a divorce, she has a new lover, so why
does she have a problem with him getting on with his life?
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Why can't she accept the marriage is over when she was the
one who ended it by having an affair?"
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We are four years old!
The BSWC was launched on March 1st 2005 and has
had
thousands of Members
during that time who have found
support and friendship from others in the same position.
- Read what
our Members have said about The BSWC:
"I love the fact the BSWC not
only helps us through difficult times with our partners and stepchildren but
also gives the opportunity to talk about anything and everything (good and bad)
- I can truly say that I have laughed and cried with the girls in the Club."
"I was at my wits end. I knew I
couldn't be the only one having the same sort of feelings but I just
didn't know anyone I could talk to and would understand."
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"It's great to be able to ask
advice, share experiences, have a laugh, all with women who know exactly what
you mean."
"BSWC is a safe haven for me -
a judgement-free zone where I can find support, guidance and great advice from a
lot of wise women"......read
more comments
We also
have Members who are
wives of widowers.
Many of our Members who have step children have had to deal with court
applications, enforcement of court orders, parental alienation, dealing with the
CSA and their assessments, CAFCASS and Social Workers, conflicting advice from
solicitors, education, and health issues just to name a few. |
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 At
the
heart of The BSWC
 are the very friendly Forums and chat
room,
which we believe are the
busiest, most informative and most secure forums of their kind in The UK.
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The BSWC has one if the easiest Chat Rooms to use: one click and you've in and
chatting with other British Second Wives.
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Free competitions!
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The BSWC runs very regular
free-to-enter competitions. Members
have won jewellery, chocolates, personalised caricatures and gift vouchers for Boots, M&S and other
similar shops. Another reason to join The BSWC today!
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Have you ever felt alone,
misunderstood?
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The BSWC understands your
situation and you'll never be alone again.
Many of
The BSWC Members know what it is like living with a man with a history.
Does his past interfere with your present? We understand what it is like
to live with a man with baggage! Often there are stepchildren thrown into
the pot (through no fault of their own) which causes extra chaos.
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If your man has a
past, many of you will identify with the articles below, which were written for us by Members of
The BSWC:
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Bitter Ex Wife Pattern
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Is she domineering, hard-nosed, malicious and controlling?
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Does she….
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Always dictate
what happens with the children?
Make all communication as awkward as possible?
Complicate arrangements when a simple ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ would suffice?
Think she can interfere in your life?
Still punish him for moving on with his life?
Waste Police and Court time with her lies and petty made up stories about her
being the Victim?.........read
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The
Spiteful Ex-wife.
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Spite
n. grudge: lasting ill-will:hatred.- v.i. to vex: to
thwart: to hate. - adj. spite'ful full of spite: desirous to vex
or injure: malignant. -adv. spite'fully. -n. spite'fulness. -in
spite of in opposition to all efforts of, in defiance of, in contempt of:
notwithstanding; spite (of) despite.
The BSWC has discovered a considerable number of ex-wives are consumed with
spite....read
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Season of Goodwill?
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Not if
you are with a man who is divorced!
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Christmas isn’t the season to be
jolly with some ex-wives and goodwill isn’t extended to divorced dads or
ex-husbands. Christmas can be a very fraught time for families, especially
so in second marriages when the festivities demand multiple arrangements to be
made with ex-spouses to accommodate Father Christmas, children and
step-children....read
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The BSWC article on ex-wives who refuse
to move on
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While
conducting research into second marriages, The BSWC revealed a surprising number
of second marriages were strained by the interference & the unwanted interest of
the ex-wife...read
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Parental Alienation
Below are the more
common symptoms
of parental alienation. Many of these behaviours will look familiar, because
some alienation occurs in all divorces. ....read
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Be heard!
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Help us to write The BSWC
Second Wives book
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Raising
funds for Charity
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We recently raised £150 to
pay for a much needed new cooker for this family, by raffling a signed
photograph of Gordon Ramsay (thank you Gordon!)
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 The
British Second Wives Club
supported Breakthrough Breast Cancer by auctioning The Gina Shoes used in
the photo shoot for the cover of novel "The Second Wives Club"
by Jane Moore.
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Let's meet!
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Great fun
get-togethers!
The BSWC holds an annual Christmas Party and a Summer BBQ, as well as many local
get-together organised by the Members themselves. Members often meet over
a coffee or a glass of wine in their local area and many say it is like meeting
old friends. Many new, strong friendships have blossomed in this way and,
because we vet all new Members carefully, you know you will be safe meeting
others for the first time.
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New Members join us daily - why
don't you?
Once you have registered & have been approved, you can gain access to The
Forums, Chat Room and Members Area. You can also enter our regular, free
competitions!
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