The British Second Wives Club
founded in Britain in 2005 offers support, advice & friendship for Second
Wives & Partners and Stepmothers worldwide.
Does he have a past?
Has he been married before? Are you now a stepmother? Did you meet him when
he was still married? Being with a man who has a past can bring many different
elements into your relationship - some good, some not so good and some bad.
In The BSWC you will
find help, advice, comfort, friendship and support in a
non-political & non-judgemental environment. A club for you to share
the good times and the bad times, find new approaches to life's
little hurdles, hook up with ladies on your wave length in the forum
and at local get-togethers. The forum is very busy, friendly and totally secure. There are nearly 250,000
posts of friendship and advice from thousands of members ranging from how to
deal with his ex-wife to legal and financial issues.
Have you ever felt alone,
The BSWC understands your
situation and you'll never be alone again.
The BSWC Members know what it is like living with a man with a history.
Does his past interfere with your present? We understand what it is like
to live with a man with baggage. Often there are stepchildren thrown into
the pot (through no fault of their own) which causes extra chaos.
His Ex Wife
Some ex-wives take
it personally he has moved on with his life. Sound familiar?
Bitter Ex Wife Pattern:
Is she domineering, hard-nosed, malicious and controlling?
The Spiteful Ex-wife:
n. grudge: lasting ill-will:hatred.
Ex-wives who refuse
to move on:
number of ex-wives refuse to move on.
We all go through stages
of denial, anger, negotiation,
depression and acceptance
Many of the common symptoms of parental alienation look familiar because some
alienation occurs in all divorces.
Join us! You'll
meet lots of like-minded women who understand what it's like being with a man
who has a past.
funds for Charity
The BSWC is proud to support
Bridges to Belarus helping children affected by the Chernobyl
raised £150 to pay for a much needed new cooker for this family
in Belarus by raffling a signed photograph of Gordon Ramsay (thank you
The British Second
Wives Club supported Breakthrough Breast Cancer by auctioning The Gina
Shoes used in the photo shoot for the cover of novel "The Second Wives
by Jane Moore.
The BSWC has been featured on:
The Daily Mail
The Mail on Sunday
The Sunday Post,
My Weekly Magazine
Take a Break Magazine
About The BSWC:
BSWC was formed in response for the need for a Second Wives Club to
assist second wives, whether married or not, through the ups and downs of living
with a man with a history!
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Members say about The BSWC:
"I love the fact the BSWC not
only helps us through difficult times with our partners and stepchildren but
also gives the opportunity to talk about anything and everything (good and bad)
- I can truly say that I have laughed and cried with the girls in the Club."
"I was at my wits end. I knew I
couldn't be the only one having the same sort of feelings but I just didn't know
anyone I could talk to and would understand."
"It's great to be able to ask
advice, share experiences, have a laugh, all with women who know exactly what
"BSWC is a safe haven for me -
a judgement-free zone where I can find support, guidance and great advice from a
lot of wise women"