Wednesday 27th August 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!
"Exactly what is my role?, Going to court with my partner, what should I expect?, Father's Legal Rights?, Puppy trainng classes, Weather in your part of the UK?, CSA calculated much less now she is on the war path!, Tasty Spicy Cheese dish, Help I'm reaching breaking point, Hello everyone!, She wants my husband to pay for her holiday so she can get away from her children!"

Thursday 21st August 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!
"Ladies, what do I do about these text messages?, Puppy training classes?, Keeping the kids entertained- I'm running out of ideas, The court date has arrived!, We're going away and it's totally child-free for us!!, August weather??, Buying a new house?, A tribute to my best friend and PMS, advice needed!"

Friday 15th August 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat
"I'm pregnant!!, His Divorce is done!, Stepdaughter doesn't tell her mother about visits, So glad I've found the BSWC! Financial mess to sort out, Self-rep - can you please advise, thanks, I think it's over as he won't stop it, Our night out, BSWC Xmas Bash, Birthday Treats and Details of the sad sex life from his previous marriage!"

Saturday 10th August 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!
"Weekend plans?, Scottish Lunch details, How could he do this to me? New Puppy and new challenges, What did you sing?, List your favourite songs, Hmmm, where are his priorities?, 11yr old shouldn't be making the decisions Husband! Our camping holiday success despite the weather!"

Monday 4th August 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat.
"He pushes me to the limits, Unwanted house guests, Help!, BSWC Xmas bash details, Media request- can you help?, Married name dilmena, why do I feel like this? Double trouble, I'm so fed-up, They are bored already, yikes!, Wedding plans coming together!"

Friday 1st August 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!
"Plans for the weekend?, She wants to divorce him for adultery but she was having the affair!, Why can't his ex-wife move on with her life?, Inlaws favour certain children, Loo roll otherwise know as The Court Order!, She dictates when he is 'allowed' to see their children, My holiday was bliss girls! His ex-wife is back after 15 years - she thinks she is welcome!, Our wedding plans, I'm so excited! BSWC gets more Media coverage"

Thursday 31st July 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!
"Our summer hols, no kids!, I'd like to announce....!, What to eat, I'm bored with food, My husband told her where to go! School holidays, Arggggggh!, How to motivate teenagers, please help, BSWC Xmas Get together, return from Oz, CSA and pensions advice please and Drawing up boundaries"

Tuesday 29th July 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!
"Day trip was positive for all! Oh no, it's raining! Our summer holiday plans, don't know what to do? My wedding dress, what do you think, girls? Wedding venues in Gloucestershire, help please? Help - my husband's bully of a mother!, Pay per view children, AGAIN!, It's been 11 years and his ex-wife is still causing trouble - will it ever stop?? Our loving weekend! New forum competition!"

Thursday 24th July, here is a small selection of some of the topics we're chatting about!
"Oh dear, his ex-wife went bonkers when he said no. Summer holiday entertainment ideas please! The ex-wife thinks we should look after the children for 6 weeks so she can get time off from them! Where can I get a big bra? Advice on getting a family dog? Ways to save money - share your tips. Why do they re-write history? Wedding plans are progressing nicely! My baby boy, here he is!"

Tuesday 22nd July 2008, some BSWC Chat!
"The ex-wife is trying to control her ex inlaws. Credit crunch, how are you saving money? Teenagers and sex, help! We're thinking about getting a dog, any advise? My Mother in Law, oh dear. Ladies, guess what great news I have, I'm preggers!! Oh WOW, sit down before you read this! Quickie Divorce? Suggestions please, I'm completely lost. He proposed!!!

Friday 18th July 2008 here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!
"She tried to cancel our wedding by getting someone to call the registry office! This years summer holiday. BSWC Book - more progress. What's in it for me? His adult stepkids are invading my bedroom. Solicitors get it wrong again. CSA wrongly ask for my details! The truth about their marriage. How do you manage liberally parented stepchildren, HELP???? Form E advice please".

Wednesday 16th July 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat, the BSWC is very busy and we're trying to update this section a few times a week!
"BSWC Founder chatting to BBC Radio Essex this morning. It's been very quiet, wish I had kept my mouth shut. His ex-wife is talking about money to their young children. They divorced so why can't she stay away? BSWC book Library, check it out! My holiday photos. 5 per day - what about you? My partner's divorce is taking forever. His ex-wife has banned me from going to the school sports day. Solicitors letter arrived this morning, it's full of lies. Why does she get Legal Aid?"

Monday 14th July, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"I think I'll give up now! How could he do this to me - he is having an affair, his ex-wife said I told you so! The ex-wife is always playing the victim, she has made numerous false claims over the years, some are against her own male family members. My partner is scared she won't allow him to see their little boys. Any suggestions for a meal for this weekend? Vegetarian cooking? Seeing his children is so stressful. 2nd time around for both of us, any venue suggestions for Kent? Oh no my job .. again! Should we rent or buy, suggestions please. Form E - look what she is claiming!"

Wednesday 9th July 2008, here is a small cross section of some of the topics we're chatting about today in the BSWC Forums!
"Gordon Ramsay Auction a great success. I can't believe he has done this to me! BSWC Book makes more progress. Wedding present dilemma. Letter from MP. Will his ex-wife ever get over herself? Stepchildren have suddenly developed food allergies...hmmmm! She shouted abuse at her ex Father in Law, infront of the children. The Solicitor says she wants the house and an income from spousal maintenance. The feelgood factor - what are your secrets?"

Tuesday 8th July 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"His soon to be ex-wife is behind on the mortgage, it may reflect in his credit score! My Husband is seeing his children for the 1st time in 2 years. To my Darling Mum. Divorce and Pets? The ex-wife made a complete fool of herself again!FDR Result! Stepchild said "I'm telling my mum on you!" His ex has told him she wants him back! She verbally abused my husband's stepdad! This is a small selection of some of the topics we're chatting about today in the BSWC forums, come in and join us for unlimited help and support from women who know what you are going through

Sunny Friday 4th July 2008, a small bite sized chunk of BSWC Chat!

"The bitter ex-wife lost in court, she was a complete moron!"
"BSWC Summer BBQ - directions"
"Our weekend plans - hope the sun stays out!"
"Contested Divorce"
"His ex-wife of 7 years won't let go!"
"Hi everyone, thank goodness I've found the BSWC, I thought I was going bonkers!"
"Stepchildren don't like me"
"Meals for one"
"I'm dreading this weekend - family party!"
"She has the morals of an Alley Cat"
"Holiday contact arrangements - she won't agree or suggest alternatives"

Wednesday 2nd July 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"My husband is in court today, he is representing himself"
"July weather, Summery?"
"How do you feel about your home?"
"I think his ex-wife is the biggest self appointed victim ... ever!"
"Reduced contact, confused about it all??"
"Summer BBQ suggestions - something different?"
"Stepkids and sleep-over?"
"Glasgow & Edinburgh get together - dates"
"I think it's the end of our relationship"
"The weigh in"

Tuesday 1st july 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"Wow, hasn't it been really busy!"
"Living in the shadow of his past"
"The Sponger is in court tomorrow"
"Summer weather!"
"Hello everyone"
"5 years on, why do his children have to be so difficult?"
"We can't afford her increased monetary demands"
"Child Maint payments after death???"
"We've set a date!"
"I've got the keys to my new place!"

Wednesday 25th June 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"We're engaged!"
"How can she do this to her own flesh and blood?"
"BSWC Charity fundraiser for the Bridges to Belarus Charity"
"My husband is in court today"
"She is a loser and she is making her children turn out like her"
"Letter to ex-wife - I'm not your slave or your taxi-driver"
"Walking wallet, bank of dad!"
"Some summer recipe ideas please"
"I think we're going to run away, we've had enough!"
"Eye test?"

Friday 20th June 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat from the member's forum!

"BSWC Charity fundraiser, we're raising money for the Bridges to Belarus Charity, win Gordon Ramsay's signed photo, only in the BSWC!"
"Join up and take part in our fund raiser and win Gordon Ramsay!"
"Email from the bitter ex-wife, here we go... brace yourselves girls!"
"She is so poor she can go on a 2 week holiday!"
"Diary updates, pull up a chair and get yourself a fresh cuppa!"
"Summer solstice plans?"
"Do solicitors have any scruples?"
"Spreading the BSWC Word!"
"Stepchildren only interested in dad - the walking wallet!"
"Cafcass, the truth!"

Thursday 19th June 2008 and here is a small selection of the BSWC Chat!

"His ex-wife is a habitual liar"
"Wildlife photos"
"Why doesn't she want a Divorce"
"BSWC on BBC Radio"
"Contact has re-started and they're already demanding Dad hands over wads of cash!"
"Cafcass - useless, outdated and pro-mummy"
"BSWC Calendar"
"Our weekend plans in tatters"
"Hi I'm new, please help me cope"

Wednesday 17th June 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"It's official CAFCASS are useless, she said to a serial alienator "both parents have to work together", speechless"
"Suggestions for days out please?"
"Does anyone have a potato and leek soup recipe?"
"BSWC Founder on BBC Radio Cumbria"
"Bread makers - which one to buy?"
"What do you girls think of my wedding dress?"
"Court update - she cried, ah what a shame (not)"
"She has force fed young children lies"
"BSWC Summer BBQ"
"In laws or out laws?"

Monday 16th June 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"Fantastic weekend!"
"Fathers Day"
"Healthy Magazine - BSWC get a mention!"
"She did what??"
"What do you think of this wedding dress girls?"
"Fuel strikes - are you affected?"
"BSWC Prize draw, less than 24 hours left!"
"BSWC Summer BBQ"
"Our wedding photos!"
"BSWC Christmas Bash!"

Friday 13th June 2008, a selection of BSWC Chat!

"Fathers Day"
"last night was a major hit, thanks for all the advice Girls!"
"Relationships - facing love after death"
"She has been dead for 5 yrs but he won't move house"
"BSWC has been on BBC Radio twice this week!"
"Weekend plans"
"Unwanted feelings"
"Wildlife in my garden (photos)"
"Retirement and payments, Help!"
"BSWC Summer BBQ"

Wednesday 11th June 2008, here's a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"Breadmaker thread is a winner - I'm buying one as well!"
"They're not even his children!"
"How can I protect my assets?"
"School holidays?"
"My husband was told by her not to turn up on sports day!"
"Police warning - keep an eye on your horses"
"Advice please, returning to work, CM payments etc"
"New BSWC prize draw!"
"she won't help with the driving"
"The ex-wife gets Legal Aid but she broke the court order"

Tuesday 10th June 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"What is your earliest memory?"
"How does his ex-wife react to you?"
"Bread Makers - which one?"
"Nanny or not?"
"If the ex-wife has false teeth will she ensure the kids looks after theirs?"
"BT Broadband - it's absolutely useless!"
"Photos - summer meadow stuffed with flowers"
"Stepchildren in my house.... Hhmmmmm"
"demented older stepchild (20yr old) wants me to get rid of my cat!"
"Pre-nuptial agreements?"

Monday 9th June 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"New Holland & Barret Magazine out this week, July/August Issue - we're in it!"
"Well done F4J!"
"Gorgeous summer weather is here!"
"Bread Makers - can you help?"
"Child contact is happening because of a dog!"
"Introducing animals to stepchildren"
"She's got Relate involved - what on earth is going on, she's been an ex-wife for years!"
"Can't she get on with her own life"
"HRT experiences?"

Friday 6th June 2008, we've had a couple of very busy days in the BSWC, here is a small selection of chat topics!

"If you read this text box please let us know what you think of it - email textbox@bswc.co.uk"
"Calling all Gordon Ramsay Fans!"
"Quiz night was a good laugh last night!"
"She can't stay away, what a sad life she must have"
"Sex life has disappeared"
"Should I go to the funeral?"
"BSWC Summer BBQ"
"New Zealand Scone recipe"
"CAFCASS seeks your views on new complaints system - they'll be inundated!"
"Should I phone the school back?"

Wednesday 4th June 2008, here is a small selection of today's chat in the BSWC!

"My partner's consent order is through!"
"More chapters complete in the BSWC book!"
"What a looser, she can't move on and she is stealing again!"
"Stepdaughter's 16th Birthday dilemma"
"He broke my heart and I'm pregnant"
"Court ordered contact didn't take place"
"BSWC Summer BBQ"
"Oh dear, Fern Britton"
"His ex-wife is a bully"
"BSWC 2009 Calendar is taking shape Ladies!"

Tuesday 3rd June 2008, here is a tiny selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"Hey Ladies, I'm back from my birthday treat!"
"New 'The spiteful Ex-wife' see frontpage of bswc.co.uk"
"Fantastic news about my DP's career!"
"Robin Gibb's story about alienation"
"Why did she go to the CSA but not want to be paid by them?"
"2009 BSWC Calendar - photos of our husbands and partners!"
"Chatroom this morning was great!"
"BSWC Christmas Get Together"
"We're supposed to be getting married in 2 months"
"We're on a budget, can you help with wedding suggestions?"

Monday 2nd June 2008, here is a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"BSWC Calendars!"
"Edinburgh Get together!"
"Hello, I'm new, desperately need advice"
"Email from stepdaughter"
"Teenage Stepchildren"
"My daughters christening"
"She breaks the court order yet gets Legal Aid!"
"Credit Crunch"
"Would you like 500 quid?"
"She treats us like a free babysitting service"

Friday 30th May 2008, here is a small selection of today's BSWC chat!

"Will she ever let go and move on with her life, his ex-wife is so bitter"
"His son excluded from school"
"We gave a home to their family pooch!"
"40th Birthday party this weekend, can't wait!"
"News about the London get together!"
"Teaching children respect - has it been forgotten?"
"His daughter stole from us, he won't tackle her?"
"Court and CAFCASS"
"Spring watch, titter! titter!"
"Eye Laser surgery"
"I miss my little house"
"Daily Mail at it again, why do they employ those ill-informed numpties?"

Wednesday 28th may 2008, here is a small selection of topics we're chatting about today!

"Wedding rings, not sure what to go for?"
"School Age raised?"
"It's official, he is Divorced!"
"Yesterday's powercuts - grrr!"
"The Judge asked what our borrowing capacity was ....what an underhand trick to find out what I earn!"
"Some facts about happiness"
"Hi Gang, I'm back from my hols!"
"Her maintenance money has been cut and now she is raging"
"I cried with relief when I found the BSWC!"
"IVF updates"

Tuesday 27th may 2008, here is a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"She completely ruined our bank holiday plans because she rowed with her boyfriend!"
"Yet more lies about having no money!"
"How long can the Divorce take - the facts please?"
"We had a fantastic time, it all worked out perfectly!"
"We had a superb weekend, in love all over again"
"My stepdaughter won't speak to me!"
"His unreasonable demands"
"How can I support him though this difficult time?"
"Bank holiday weather?"
"My birthday party plans"

Sunny Friday 23rd May 2008, a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"Why don't the courts punish her for what she has done?"
"The ex-wife has messed with her children's heads"
"She won't allow the children to see their Dad because he stood up to her and said no to her outrageous demands"
"London get together - list of members confirmed"
"BSWC Book - more chapters completed!"
"We're going away this weekend - on our own!"
"Can this relationship take the strain?"
"What would you do about this invitation?"
"OMG, his Sister in Law is close friends with his ex-wife and wants us all to go out one night!"
"Our wedding photos"

Wednesday 21st May 2008, here is a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"Dinner party for 12 - yikes!!"
"She is so bitter she is stopping their children having a Dad in their lives"
"Do some space clearing and I found naughty photos of BF and his ex-wife"
"A microwave free home!"
"Doing you friends have children?"
"Stepkids birthdays coming up - suggestions please"
"Renewing our wedding vows"
"His adult son is a sponger just like his mother!"
"Childless by choice?"
"How on earth does my money have anything to do with my partner's ex-wife - nosey Cow!"

Tuesday 20th May 2008, a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"Forever the victim, she's having a go again!"
"New competition!"
"Some baby photos"
"For all you wine drinkers"
"Morning sickness, will it ever go away?"
"My husband has retreated into his cave"
"Hi, I'm new and this is my story"
"We're married, here are our photos!"
"Discipline and stepchildren?"
"What did he see in her, she has false teeth, yuck!"

Monday 19th May 2008, a small selection of the chat from the BSWC Forums!

"I'm surrounded by all his late wife's belongings"
"His ex-wife is so bitter!"
"My boyfriend's daughters don't like me, what can I do?"
"Hmmm, suspicious communication .. what do you good ladies think?"
"Who does the driving?"
"No surprise, she is getting Legal Aid, what a sponger!"
"Should I sell my house?"
"Advice on wills please"
"What can help me with the Menopause?"
"BSWC Summer BBQ - here's the Band!"

Friday 16th May 2008, here is a very small selection of chat from the BSWC forums.

"I'm new to this - BSWC and being a Second Wife & Stepmother, HELP!"
"When does the morning sickness stop - I'm wiped out"
"She failed in court now she is blocking child contact"
"Fertility Update - it's positive news!"
"Microwave, can you live without yours?"
"CAFCASS deny Parental Alienation exists!"
"Weekend away coming up with the stepchildren, any tips?"
"His 13 yr old hormonal Daughter wants to move in with us"
"Hello Ladies, I'm from the USA and my Husband is from the UK"
"She got drunk and sent some cringeworthy text messages!"

Another Sunny Day, it's Thursday 15th May 2008, here is a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"The bitter ex-wife fell flat on her face in court, liars always get found out!"
"We're booking our holiday this weekend"
"She keeps demanding more money - they've been divorced for 8 years"
"Legal Question about Legal Aid?"
"The bitter ex turned up at court with a Barrister and a Solicitor"
"Sex and reproduction books for 11 yr old?"
"How to self represent in court -we can help you"
"Summer BBQ get together"
"The Apprentice - hmmmm, the arrogance is getting a tad boring"
"Fingers crossed CAFCASS will do their job professionally"

Sunny Wednesday 14th May 2008, here is a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"My Husband is in court today, his ex-wife blocks all communication with their children"
"Get Together - North East"
"Malicious Mother Syndrome - don't we all have examples of this, I know I do"
"John Cleese and his 3rd Divorce, she is after the money!"
"Why is it such a battle to be with a man who has been married before?"
"Some BBQ ideas needed - can you help?"
"Why is his ex-wife so bitter?"
"His son has come to live with us, no warning... nothing"
"My diet is finally working"
"He proposed last night"

Summery Tuesday 13th may 2008, here is a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"He is still letting her bully him"
"A question about Divorce - what happens next"
"The ex-wife is trying to get him back, you won't guess what she offered to do to him!"
"Gorgeous weather"
"How do we get the Holiday arrangements to work, again"
"Daughter removed from alienating Mother to live with Dad"
"Macca Divorce finalised"
"Beauty Secrets"
"My mum is here!"
"His oldest daughters are a nightmare"

Sunny Monday 12th May 2008, here is a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"What a cracking weekend we had!"
"We're married, I coudn't resist logging in to say hello from our honeymoon suite!"
"He still hasn't moved in"
"She considers she is doing us a favour by allowing us to see the children!"
"Letter to MP"
"She sent a 4 page letter, it's a marathon rant"
"School holiday dates - she won't reply"
"We're on holiday for 2 weeks, poolside here we come"
"Strange behaviour, what do you think?"
"A happy home"

Friday 9th May 2008, Another hot, sunny day and here's a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"These women live for controlling their ex-husbands"
"It's going to be a busy weekend"
"Weight loss advice please"
"Quiz night's are back! What a blast!"
"She needs to be tamed like a wild animal"
"My husband's ex-wife thinks she can just phone whenever she wants something doing"
"Court next week"
"www.endpa.co.uk is getting a lot of attention"
"May Weather?"
"The sun is out, I'm going gardening"

Thursday 8th May 2008 Another hot sunny day and here's a small selection of today's BSWC Chat!

"The ex-wife won't allow the children to talk to their dad!"
"She can't agree on anything, always excuses!"
"My stepdaughter sent me flowers for my birthday"
"The CSA, Help!"
"Gorgeous summer weather but is it here to stay?"
"IVF, my chances are improving"
"Backstreet boys concert - how sad am I, don't answer that one!"
"New BSWC Competition - win some Lush Goodies"
"She keeps threatening the CSA so my husband contacted the CSA himself - she isn't happy"
"We're getting married"

Wednesday 7th May 2008, see below for a small selection of BSWC Chat!

"His ex-wife wants to vet me, I don't think so!"
"Online plant odering, can you help?"
"I'm not sure I'm in the right job... yikes!"
"The ex-wife has a new boyfriend and suddenly we're her best friends - for babysitting!"
"Hi Everyone, I've just joined and oh boy, I'm soooo glad I did!"
"endpa.co.uk - getting lots of interest and stories"
"We had an affair and he left her - we're still getting punished for this - 4 years on!"
"This is so tough, I don't know how much stress I can take"
"He is paying for a child who isn't his"
"His ex-wife won't leave us alone, she phoned again last night"

Tuesday 6th May 2008, here is a small selection of some of the topics we're chatting about today in the BSWC!

"Bank Holiday Headache!"
"How do I approach this one?"
"she wants to move to Oz!"
"The ex-wife is claiming she is terminally ill, yet the facts don't stack up"
"living together is working out!"
"Her behaviour makes me mad, it's classic stuff!"
"Anyone up for a lunchtime meet next week?"
"Cafcass, they are unreal - they sided with the mother"
"Stepchildren wont eat, what do I do?"
"His ex-wife keeps in contact"

Monday 5th may 2008, we're all enjoying the May Day Weekend!

"Woo hoo Sunshine today!"
"Golden Uterus strikes again!"
"Her marriage failure is my marriage success!"
"She has refused to do any driving"
"I really need help here, my relationship will end"
"New Diet starts tomorrow"
"endpa.co.uk - loads of input!"
"They came with a list of clothes and instructions for washing!"
"Today we finally get sometime to ourselves!"
"What was he thinking when he married her!"

Friday 2nd May 2008, here is a small selection of the BSWC chat!

"Bank Holiday Plans?"
"She has agreed to be more reasonable!"
"We have the stepchildren for the entire weekend, she is going away with her new boyfriend"
"Our new puppy!"
"3rd Interview and got the job offer of my dreams!"
"Organic - yes or No?"
"He thinks his children are perfect little Angels!"
"Head in sand syndrome"
"We've split up"
"She isn't going to stop pestering us, is she?"

Wednesday 30th April 2008, a small selection of the forum chat in the BSWC!

"BSWC launch new chatroom, groovy features!"
"A new addition to our family - a furry one!"
"New Recipe - Tasty Minestrone Soup in less than 15 mins!"
"His ex-wife won't leave us alone"
"Progress at last with Hospital appointment"
"Happy Birthday!"
"She's broken the court order and disappeared"
"How to use all the forum features, picture upload"
"My husband's son has reappeared - skint and asking for money"
"She won't communicate about holiday dates, it's the same every year"

Tuesday 29th April 2008, here is a small selection of chat from the BSWC forms!

"His life is so perfect, just the way HE wants it - what about me?"
"She sends my husband the most ridiculous letters!"
"Court ruling is so unfair!"
"We're buying a house together!"
"His children treat me as the chief cook and bottle washer!"
"My daughter was offered the job of a lifetime!"
"Would you like 500 cash? Media request!"
"Court date has been confirmed!"
"Judge wants to see her in mediation, ha ha ha!"
"CAFCASS what a load of clowns!"

Monday 28th April 2008, after a busy weekend here is a small selection of topics we're chatting about!

"We're in shock, the Judge ordered 40% of my partner's salary for her"
"I'm not sure if I can do this anymore"
"Selling the Former Marital Home?"
"Can anyone tell me why she is so bitter?"
"Step Parent Adoption a success!"
"The ex-wife appears to have forgotten they divorced years ago!"
"CAFCASS screw it up one again - are we surprised? NO!"
"Meeting his extended Family"
"I have no children but he has 4, HELP!"
"21 yr old stepson has moved in with us"
"Holidays with stepkids, ideas please"

Friday 25th April 2008, a small selection from the BSWC forums!

"Endpa.co.uk is here, let's stop parental alienation now!"
"Plans for the weekend?"
"OMG, he is actually going to do it, he is going to tell her to stop calling our home!"
"Just when I thought it was all over"
"Rainbow photo, isn't this stunning!"
"We're going away for a romantic weekend!"
"Wish my Daughter luck, she has a job interview!"
"My husband to be can't find his Divorce papers, help!"
"Child access, sticking to our guns!"
"Hi, I wish I'd joined last year, this place is amazing!"

Thursday 24th April 2008, here is a small selection of topics we're chatting about in the BSWC Forums!

"Did you hear the explosion, the court papers will have been served!"
"Stop Parental Alienation, NOW! new website!"
"Why is it all so difficult?"
"I'm speechless, I'm pregnant!"
"When does CM stop?"
"Passports - how do you go about it when the ex-wife won't co-operate?"
"Support for Divorced dads?"
"Bitter ex-wife has done everything she can to stop the children having a normal relationship with their dad"
"The low-down on Magic Knickers?"
"How do you ensure more couple time?"

Wednesday 23rd April 2008, a small selection of topics we're chatting about today!

"It's my last day in my job, yeeeehaaa!"
"New site for raising awareness about Parental Alienation"
"The nasty ex-wife strikes again!"
"Oh dear, yet another TV programme on HM, not very flattering was it"
"Has anyone adopted a baby?"
"Does anyone know if the CSA look at previous earnings to work our CM or just current?"
"BSWC book makes more progress!"
"Will his Divorce ever end?"
"The ex-wife wants more Spousal Maintenance because she has been fired from her job!"
"Health - excessive tiredness, any suggestions?"

Tuesday 22nd April 2008, a small selection of the topics we're chatting about!

"Will she ever get over it?"
"Springtime weather at last!"
"Court date has been moved 20 mins before hearing"
"18months and he has finally plucked up the courage!"
"Our wedding plans!"
"Menu ideas?"
"Tonight, Heather Mills on TV again!"
"My new bundle of joy!"
"Book for rehoming!"
"His ex-wife said he can pay for their son's birthday party but he can't attend because all her friends are going to be there!"

Monday 21st April 2008, after a busy weekend in the BSWC we're chatting about!

"We're serving the court papers today!"
"Ex-wife and her druggie boyfriend, it's horrifying!"
"April Weather?"
"His children are so negative to us, even though their mum remarried!"
"Get together this week - County Durham!"
"Low Fat Meal Recipes?"
"His Divorce is holding up our Wedding Plans"
"Can you help with removal of tattoos, her name is on his arm"
"Wedding Venues with a difference?"
"Here we go again, she wants him back and tried to have offer him sex!"

Friday 18th April 2008, here is a small selection of topics we're currently chatting about!

"Her parents are annoyed because he got up and left, can he divorce them too!"
"Ex-wife and Mediation - she won't go!"
"Woo Hoo, it's Friday"
"She's onto her next victim"
"Inlaws or outlaws?"
"Romantic weekend away"
"When we are bored, ha! ha!"
"My Grumpy partner"
"The karma bus is on it's way"
"Hi everyone, my first posting!"

Thursday 17th April 2008, here is a small selection of the topics we're chatting about today!

"Contraception"
"I can't stand all the court appearances"
"His adult daughters hate me"
"BSWC Summer BBQ, updates"
"Parental Alienation is a typical behaviour from a bitter ex-wife"
"Does anyone have a miracle cure for snoring?"
"Hello, I'm a newbie!"
"London Get together"
"The Times, Body & Soul Article for BSWC"
"Freebies, see here Girls!"

Wednesday 16th April 2008, A small selection of today's chat in the BSWC forums

"Update on her request for me to pay her child maintenance"
"April Weather?"
"Urgent help, legal issues"
"Help with contact order, she's at it again!"
"Can I grown these in the Garden?"
"Parental Alienation - typical behaviour?"
"Court papers have arrived"
"2nd Weddings - a question"
"The ex doesn't want his parents to know she had affairs!"
"My health- the stress factor!"

Tuesday 15th April 2008, a small selection of today's chat!

"My partner has no job so his ex-wife wrote to me demanding I pay her child maintenance!"
"The Ex-wife rejected a very generous financial offer"
"You Magazine, Media request"
"My hubbie lied about his daughter"
"She wants to change dad's contact with his children, AGAIN!"
"The bullying Ex puts her outrageous demands in writing"
"Career Advice please"
"Fertility Issues - where do I start?"
"New Forum competition - thanks, my prize arrived today"
"BSWC talking to BBC Radion Leeds today about 2nd marriages"

Monday 14th April 2008, in the BSWC here is a small selection of the topics we're chatting about!

"How was your weekend?"
"Broken Contact Order, she didn't obey the Judge's ruling"
"Arguing Bridesmaids"
"My husband changes when his daughter comes to stay"
"How much does it cost to start court action?"
"His ex-wife left him but she acts like he left her!"
"My Daughter is pushing my buttons!"
"Paying direct to the Ex or CSA ?"
"Aargh, puncture!"
"BSWC Book - your input is required"
"Freebies!"

It's Friday 11th April 2008, it's a busy morning in the BSWC, here are some of the topics we're chatting about!

"How daft can they be?"
"Status in the step-family?"
"I'm so stressed out I'm about to cry"
"Wedding Venues"
"She makes her son feel guilty if he spends time with us"
"Weekend plans?"
"Last warning then it's a Penal notice!"
"My interview was a massive success!"
"Chester get-together next week"
"His ex-wife went bonkers when she found out we're getting married!"

Thursday 10th April, here is a small selection of subjects we're chatting about:

"Race for life, thanks for all your sponsorship"
"Ex-wife tried to come to our wedding!"
"A letter to my husband, Grrr!"
"HR Vacancies?"
"Happy Birthday to my Dad!"
"Hello I've just joined"
"Why does his Ex-wife have to make assumptions about me, and they're all wrong - no surprise, eh!"
"Stepson booted out of school"
"Book to pass on, who is next?"
"My partner has two evil ex-wives who haunt him!"
"He leaves all the childcare to me"
"The Judge ordered her to get a job!"

Today, Wednesday 9th April 2008, in the BSWC we are having a chat about these topics

"Finally, the former marital home has been sold"
"Has anyone adopted a baby?"
"Passport for Step daughter?"
"Photos of our pets"
"Credit agencies - you should check out your details"
"Cafcass advice for meeting next week"
"Hi, I'm new and living with a widower"
"Hi, my husband has a bitter ex-wife"
"Stepson is rude but his dad won't do anything about him!"
"My partner told me all about the sex life he had with his ex-wife - OMG!"

On this Sunny Tuesday 8th April 2008 in the BSWC we're chatting about-

"Our Wedding plans are at risk because of his attitude"
"I'm pregnant and his ex-wife has gone into Orbit!"
"Has being a 2nd wife/partner of a man who has been married before affected your health?"
"April, What fantastic weather!"
"BSWC Book, your input please - how do you feel about your stepchildren?"
"Employment law?contract query"
"His ex-wife hates me"
"My stepdaughter won"
"I sold my car to pay my partner's court bill"
"Gardening Questions"

Monday 7th April 2008, today in the BSWC forum we're chatting about -

"New sections in the forum, what do you think?"
"Weather in your part of the world?"
"Family courts - any positive CAFCASS stories?"
"Results of DPs Vasectomy Reversal"
"OMG, the weekend was a disaster because they were sooooo badly behaved!"
"I won!"
"I'm meeting my step-daughter for the first time,any suggestions?"
"She is demanding more money and only has a part time job!"
"His children are rude, no manners and aggressive"
"His Ex has been harrassing me again, I called the Police - this time they arrested her!"
"Folic acid 'helps to keep sperm healthy"

Friday 4th April 2008, today we're chatting about -

"I'm pregnant, the reversal worked"
"Help, my partner has left me"
"Come Dine with me"
"The Ex has a new boyfriend and she has dumped the kids with us for 2 weeks, no warning!"
"We're going back to court"
"Why is she is obsessed by me?"
"London Get together"
"Plans for the weekend?"
"My partner got shared residency and the Judge told her to stop using the kids!"
"My husband has been to court more than 20 times because of the evil Ex"

Thursday 3rd April 2008, yet another busy day in the BSWC, here is a small selection of topics we're chatting about!

"I don't know if I can cope with his children, they're so rude"
"Summer holiday plans - UK or abroad?"
"His Ex enagaged a PI to snoop around"
"Wedding Venues, suggestions please"
"What's your status in your stepfamily"
"How healthy are you?"
"Why did she make him have a vasectomy?"
"Court Order Broken, penal order is next"
"I want my life back"
"New competition - confess all!"
"Hi, I'm new and so glad I've found you all"
"BSWC Book - what were your expectations and how do they compare to the realities?"

Wednesday 2nd April 2008, here's a small selection of the topics we're chatting about!

"London get together- dates confirmed"
"Help please - residency order reversal"
"IVF - how much £'s?"
"His Ex is a bully and a control freak!"
"Contact Order broken, again!"
"Is this normal?"
"Ex has lost her job & is asking for more money"
"New forum competition!"
"She has hired a PI to find out info about Me!"
"Lunch meeting - Chester"
"This is the best place to be"
"Didn't he do well!"

Friday 28th March 2008 here is a small selection of the topics we're chatting about:

"My fantastic birthday Treat, isn't he the best!"
"More Guilty Pleasures!"
"Cheap Wedding, any suggestions as we have a very tight Budget"
"How do you find a great Solicitor?"
"Hi I'm new and his ex-wife is stalking me, help"
"Would you do it again?"
"Sucked into e-mail correspondence with the nasty Ex"
"Anyone fancy some PI work?"
"Easter Flu"
"Weekend plans?"
"The vitamins are working"

Thursday 27th March 2008, in the BSWC today we are chatting about:

"Can you help?"
"She is going after his money AGAIN!"
"Guilty Pleasures - what's yours?"
"I think we have a bad case of the bitter Ex syndrome!"
"Family Courts"
"Our 1st Wedding Anniversary! says Club Founder Linda Mellor"
"CAFCASS meeting is booked, do they ever get anything right???"
"Urgent Media request!"
"Summer holidays - any suggestions for 7 of us?"
"Desperate Housewives - series 4, what did you think?"
"The perfect Stepmother?"
"Court Orders - are they any good?"
"How much will it cost to start court action in England?"

Wednesday 26th March 2008, in the BSWC today here are a small selection of the topics we're chatting about:

"McCartney vs McCartney: The Ex Files' ITV1 - more revealing claims"
"BSWC Competition closing on Friday!"
"Heather Mills - will she ever give it a rest"
"Thanks for last night, I logged out of the chatroom at 2.30am!"
"Court Action restarted, she has broken the Order again & again, 7 yrs on she is so predictable"
"Bank Holiday contact - she is never home because she has a new boyfriend so we get lumbered"
"Telling lies, making up stories, claiming she had money - his ex-wife was exactly the same!"
"Father-in-Law"
"E Form question - help?"
"Any one from Wirral/Liverpool/North Wales/Cheshire area?"
"It's our wedding Anniversary"
"She put nasty letters through all my neighbours letter boxes!"
"Feeling great today- my diet is finally working!"

Tuesday 24th March 2008, here are a small selection of topics being discussed after the Easter Break

"Easter was a disaster, she wanted money for the children - Pay per view!"
"Is my husband blind or stupid over his eldest Daughter?"
"His ex-wife wants to meet me, why does she think I want her approval!"
"March weather - lots of cold and snow!"
"It's just floored my partner, he finally realises what the Divorce is going to be like"
"They demanded their Easter Eggs!"
"How long will the Divorce take?"
"Coping with Stepchildren - how do you do it?"
"New sections added to the BSWC"
"How many Choccie Eggs did you eat?"
"We had a blissful weekend - some photos to share"
Friday 21st March 2008, some of the topics being discussed in the forums are:

"Church Wedding, seems tricky if you're Divorced"
"Dilemma - what would you do?"
"She's dumped the stepchildren at our house, no warning, no asking, so she can go see her new boyfriend"
"Easter Weather - gale force winds and snow!"
"BSWC Book - more chapters complete!"
"Ex-wife has moved their daughter to another school and she won't inform my partner the details"
"It's our 1st Wedding Anniversary!"
"We've hired a PI"
"His children frustrate me with their bad manners and rudeness"
"Oz CSA chasing for details - why?"
"Great News, my son has been given a clean bill of health!"
"She had the affair so why do they treat me like I was the scarlet woman?"

In the BSWC Forums today, Thursday 20th March 2008, some of the Topics being discussed are -

"Do you have to stock up the cupboard before the school holidays?"
"The BSWC's 'Better 2nd Time Around' Series 1 based in Secondbury-on-Sea"
"What am I, invisible?"
"Latest Access Row, update: We stood our ground, she backed down!"
"Easter Weekend Plans?"
"We're getting married!"
"Easter - religious or not?"
"The Ex is making the children call their dad by his first name, how sick is that?"
"I think we're going for a Penal order to be attached to the broken Court Order"
"Step children are being really difficult, I'm not sure I want them around, help"
"Judge's decision has helped the world see what it's like to divorce a money grabbing, bitter ex"

A small selection of some of the Topics being discussed in the BSWC Forums Today, Wednesday 19th March 2008

"Small Victory for British Courts - they didn't give her everything she demanded!"
"How long will her bitterness blight our lives?"
"Clean Break"
"March Weather - cool and sunny here!"
"Court Order and the CSA?"
"Do you think she will alienate her daughter from her ex-husband?"
"Penal Notice attached to Court Order - she won't comply"
"If my hubbie pays her more money she will 'allow' their sons to see their dad, isn't this Blackmail?"
"The ex-wife is turning the children against us, they are now so introverted, it's heartbreaking"
"I don't know if I can do this anymore"
"Thank you BSWC, your advice has stopped the bullying ex-wife in her tracks!"


A small selection of Topics being discussed today, Tuesday 18th March 2008 in the BSWC Forums.

"Mills - what is she going to do now, become a Barrister?"
"Daily Mail says "£700 for every hour of the marriage ... and Heather Mills is STILL moaning"
"Court - here we go again"
"Why us?"
"Ex-wife is going ballastic, again!"
"Help, InLaws are coming for Easter and I can't cook"
"Latest Access row and at a loss what to do next"
"The Ex says she will stop him seeing his girls if we move in together"
"She wants us to have the children and still pay her child maintenance!"
"What are your plans for Easter?"

Monday 17th March 2008

A small selection of Topics being discussed today are -

"Heather Mills speak to the Press outside court ....Hmmmm"
"Happy St Patricks Day!"
"McCartney Vs Mills - Divorce Settlement today"
"More Good News!"
"I'm finally allowed to meet the step children"
"BSWC Book - News Update!"
"Step kids are back from University"
"The Ex made a complete fool of herself, thankfully there were witnesses"
"BBC's Top Gear to go on Tour"
"BSWC Founder, BBC Radio Stoke interview"
"Well Hello"
"Easter survival tips?"
"CSA assessment, again and again - guess who is behind it?"
"Attachment of earnings order"

Friday 14th March 2008

A small selection of Topics being discussed today are -

"CSA assessment to take over Court Ordered maintenance"
"Seems to be a few fathers in the news headlines today"
"Babysitting, any suggestions?"
"Wow, thank goodness I've found the BSWC!"
"Step children and parents evening?"
"How do CSA determine net income for Limited Companies?"
"My partner has no job, the EX tells me I should pay child Maintenance!"
"I'm sick of her bullying"
"A 3some, my husband, his ex-wife and me"
"Bank of my husband - according to his ex-wife, she wants more ££££££!"
"Heather Mills may not get any spousal Maintenance"
"Ex-wife wants us to pay off her debts or he won't see his son every again!"

Thursday 13th March 2008

A small selection of some of the topics being discussed in the BSWC forum's today

"Newspaper article - Forced to Abandon my son"
"Step kids summer holidays?"
"Anyone in Lanarkshire, a drink and chat?"
"Ex-wife doesn't allow the children to stay at our house"
"She has broken the court order, AGAIN!"
"My husband's 19 yr old Daughter is jealous, what can I do?"
"Our Wedding is booked!"
"We've bought a house together!"
"Spring weather"

Wednesday 12th March 2008

Here are a small selection of the topics being discussed in the BSWC Members forum today -

"Honey Trap, Essex FM"
"Taking Stepchildren to Church?"
"Organic Food?"
"My partner representing himself in court"
"Rules for Step children's accommodation?"
"Dinner party for 10, yikes!"
"Stopping Child Maintenance, children have left home"
"Today's weather"
"Acrimonious Divorce - will it ever end?"
"Ex-wife followed me yesterday"
"Ex is telling lies again & again"
"His daughter stole from us"
"We're getting married!!"
"Ex controls the children's phone conversations with their Dad"

Tuesday 11th March 2008

Another busy day in the BSWC, here are a small selection of the topics -

"The forms have gone in!"
"BSWC members survey!"
"Exercise, how much do you do daily?"
"Article in Mag about stepmothers"
"Hi to all 2nd wives!"
"Delia Smith anyone?"
"We're going to court again"
"Will she ever give it a rest?"
"What wedding flowers should I have?"
"Today's weather"
"Media request, £200 payment!"

Monday 10th March 2008

A small selection of the topics being discussed in the BSWC members forum today -

"New Wedding Dress"
"What a great Birthday Surprise"
"Severe Weather warnings!"
"A note to my partner, keep your trap shut!"
"Mother in law wants to take me and the ex-wife out to lunch!"
"finally, he is officially Divorced"
"She had the affair, left him and now wants him back, HELP!"
"What is your best feature?"

Friday 7th March 2008

Another busy day in the BSWC, here are a small selection of the topics -

"Changing the contact order"
"The Ex told the school a pack of lies, AGAIN!"
" We're going to court again"
"Returning Member, Hi!" "Your plans for the weekend?"
"Help, she's never off the phone to my husband but she won't allow him to see his Daughter"
"The Gossip"
"Send a letter, good idea or make it worse?"
"Dinner party, food suggestions, please?"
"BSWC Book, the update!"
"Media request from Good Housekeeping Magazine?"

Thursday 6th March 2008.

Yesterday in the BSWC we had over 400 postings by members - if you are living with a man who has been married before, join us now, the BSWC is only place for support!

A small selection of popular subjects discussed in today's members forum - "Fathers and contact with School, the ex-wife is trying to block it"
"My 2nd wedding, suggestions please"
"Friends don't understand what it's like to have a bitter ex-wife harassing you all the time"
"Today's weather"
"We had a great time in the chat room last night"
"Can a Judge influence an agreement"
" Why isn't Parental Alienation recognised?"
"High Court appointed Guardian"
"Hi, I'm new and so glad I have found you all!"

You'll get lots of help, support and understanding in the BSWC - Join us today!

Wednesday 5th March 2008

A small selection of popular subjects discussed in today's members forum -"Why does he have to pay her so much spousal maintenance?"
"I really can't believe my partner, he has been divorced for 5 years yet he fears upsetting his ex-wife?"
"My boyfriend's ex-wife says I'm not allowed to meet their daughter!"
"The BSWC 3rd birthday Bracelet Giveaway!"
"BSWC Summer BBQ!"

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